To All The Ladies

Dear ladies,

Stay who you are in the Lord. Don’t give up your standards.

I know too many girls that would give up all their standards, they’d give up everything to get that guy. That perfect guy. I have news for you: the guy that you drop standards for is not the perfect guy. I won’t say he will never be, but before you give up all of you for him, he needs to grow up. He is still a boy and I can guarantee you don’t want a boy.  You are worth so much more than giving it all up for acceptance from a boy that wants you for his sexual, sinful, disgusting desire.

You are so much more precious than he will ever see until he grows up.

Let’s face it: if you feel less than beautiful with a guy because of what he expects from you, leave! You don’t need a little, immature boy to tell you you aren’t beautiful. If you are in an abusive relationship, I PLEAD with you, GET OUT! Tell someone and get SO OUT of there!

I cannot stress enough that you are beautiful and you do not need the acceptance of a guy to make you feel that. God made you beautiful and that is what you need to learn.

I want you to understand that God loves you and created you for a purpose and I do not believe that purpose is to chase guys, especially the guys that are looking for bodies. You are worth more than that.

Sit back and give up the chase. Learn to love God, live for Him, and allow Him to do what He wants with you. Don’t chase boys, let God give you a man.

For further reading, check out 1 Corinthians 7.

I love you all, and you are all beautiful.

Your brother,
Adam S

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